The first day of daycare is an exciting time for your little one- but first day jitters aren’t just for kids! For first-time parents feeling nervous about finding the “new normal” for your family, we understand. We’ve helped thousands of parents and kids though the transition to daycare and pre-K, and we’re here to support you every step of the way. Keep reading for a list of tips and tricks we’ve put together for parents to help prepare you and your child for an exciting first day.
1. Take Small Steps to Ease the Transition
One of the best ways to ease both your and your child’s nerves is by taking small steps toward the big day. By introducing your child to the daycare environment before the first day, it can help your child (and you!) become familiar with the new setting. The more comfortable you both are with the environment, the less daunting the first day will feel.
2. Give Yourself a Pep Talk
The first day of daycare is a big milestone for your family, and it’s normal to feel a little nervous. Remind yourself that this is an opportunity for your child to grow, make new friends, and learn new things. Talk to your child about the fun activities they’ll get to do and the new friends they’ll make. Keeping the conversation positive and enthusiastic will help set the tone for an exciting first day- and help put your mind at ease, too.
3. Adjust Routines in Advance
Your child isn’t the only one that will have to get used to a new routine, you’ll have to find a new flow for yourself, too. Try adjusting bedtime and morning routines a few weeks before daycare starts, so that when the first day comes, you both have an expectation of what the day will look like.
4. Create a Goodbye Routine
Saying goodbye can be one of the toughest moments on the first day of daycare. Creating a special goodbye routine can make this transition smoother. Whether it’s a hug, a high-five, or a special phrase, establishing a consistent goodbye routine can give your child a sense of security and consistency. Lingering during your goodbye can make the separation harder for both of you, so be sure to keep it short and sweet.
5. Connect with Other Parents
You’re not alone in starting this new chapter- there are so many wonderful families at the Y going through similar transitions. Connecting with other parents can provide valuable support and reassurance, so don’t be shy to introduce yourself! The Oshkosh YMCA offers a welcoming community where many families are eager to share their experiences and advice.
Whether it’s sharing tips for a smooth morning routine or simply lending a listening ear, these connections can ease your transition into daycare life. Many of our Y families find that these relationships extend beyond the daycare years, becoming a vital part of their support network as their children grow.
Final Thoughts
Starting daycare is a big step for both you and your child, but with a little preparation and a positive mindset, you can make the experience a smooth and exciting one. At the Oshkosh YMCA, we’re here to support you every step of the way. You can rest assured knowing that your child is in the care of a team that has consistently earned the trust of countless families in our community. Our childcare staff are passionate about maintaining a safe and welcoming environment for every child in our care.
We hope these tips will help you and your child have a great first day of daycare. If you have any questions or concerns as you prepare for the big day, don’t hesitate to reach out! We’re committed to making this transition as joyful and comfortable as possible for your family.
Updated August 19, 2024.